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Separation is always better than being stuck in wrong marriage!!!

I know this is a serious and sensitive topic to discuss on but I think it's also mandate at the same thing to bring somethings into notice. No doubt, Marriage has been one of the exciting part of an individuals life but at the same time it has also been one of the biggest regrets for some people when he/she engages with a wrong partner. Is it okay continuing your married life inspite of knowing that things are not as it was supposed to be or get yourself separated and live your life peacefully? I have seen many cases where marriage turns out to be the biggest regret in an individual's life. I would like to discuss one. 

There was a girl with good career before marriage and she also wanted to earn post marriage and I think there's nothing wrong in it. Her would be husband and in-laws agreed to it. But after marriage they didn't stick to their words and didn't allow her to continue with her job. They also started abusing her physically and mentally, they'd burn all her education documents and forced her to get some money from her father. And her husband supported his family in all these things. When she complained all these to her parents, they said "Now you have to bear everything, since you are married".Now the question "Was it actually her fault? Can she not expect support from her family?

There are families who support their child post marriage if things are not working out. But what about the ones not doing? Problem is here a family runs on the terms of the society. They fear getting judged. But will a family be able to forgive themselves when a child does something wrong to him/her? Or will society get the family their child back? No, Right. It's high time to think about this and understand Happiness of your child is more important than the so called rules and regulations set by the society. 

It happens that sometimes our decisions may go wrong, afterall we are all human beings but not correcting that decision is something we need to look after. A child is already suffering from wrong marriage, let's just support him/her with their decisions ahead and make them feel that it;s okay, it happens and there is nothing wrong into it. And so in my opinion, Getting separated is always better than being stuck in wrong marriage. 

NO ONE HAS EVER DIED BY BEING SINGLE, BUT MANY HAS SUFFERED/DIED BY BEING INTO A WRONG MARRIAGE!

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